Primary school is often where ADHD becomes harder to miss. The classroom asks children to sit still, follow instructions and focus for longer — and if your child is struggling with all three, school may already have raised it, or you may be the one noticing the gap at home.
ADHD shows up differently from child to child. Some children are visibly restless, interrupt, or struggle to stay in their seat. Others are quiet but drift off, lose belongings, and take far longer than expected to finish work — the inattentive pattern that is easy to overlook, especially in girls. A common thread is that the difficulties show up both at school and at home, not just in one place.
Your child’s teacher and SENCo see them in a setting you don’t, so their observations carry real weight in an assessment. Ask what support is already in place under SEN Support, and request copies of any notes. A diagnosis is not needed for the school to put help in place now.
Assessment at this age usually combines a detailed history, standardised questionnaires completed by you and the school, and a clinical interview. The clinician is looking for a consistent pattern across settings that is beyond what is expected for your child’s age, and that gets in the way of learning, friendships or daily life.
If the NHS wait in your area is long, families in England can use NHS Right to Choose for a funded assessment, or consider going private. See our costs and waiting times guide to compare. Whatever route you choose, the right support at primary age can change how your child feels about school.
Start here: our full Private ADHD Assessment guide for children covers costs, what an assessment involves and how to find a registered assessor. You can also use NHS Right to Choose for a funded assessment, or search the directory for a verified ADHD specialist near you.